“I feel odd…”


Working in youth ministry for 30 years has given me a strong taste of “the odd.” It seems as though I get odd comments, looks, and reactions for liking teenagers and caring about their lives.

  • “Yeah, but what do you really do for a living?”
  • “When are you going to get your own church?”
  • “So, you… actually spend time with them? Why would you do that?”

Being odd, being misunderstood is part of what you “sign-up” for when you follow God’s lead to love Him and like teenagers. Being odd is part of the gig.

But, in God’s larger kingdom, being odd is part of simply following Jesus. We are “aliens and strangers in the world” (1 Peter 2:11). So was Jesus. God became flesh and invited people from earth to a foreign way of thinking… to exchange their ways for the Kingdom… to dance instead of walk. To be odd–simply odd.

A.W. Tozer beautifully describes this oddness

“A real Christian is an odd number anyway. He feels supreme love for one whom he has never seen. He talks familiarly every day to someone he cannot see, expects to go to heaven on the virtue of another, empties himself in order that he might be full, admits he is wrong so he can be declared right, goes down in order to get up. He is strongest when he is weakest, richest when he is poorest, and a happiest when he feels worst. He dies so he can live, forsakes in order to have, gives away so he can keep, sees the invisible, hears the inaudible, and knows that which passeth knowledge.”


Maybe being odd isn’t such a bad thing.

Question: Are we calling others to this odd way of life? This Kingdom life? Thoughts?


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  • Kingcrappie

    Always enjoy your blog, Doug, but this particular one is golden.  Our students have taken note lately, that they are an odd lot.  We youthworkers could not be happier that they recognize and are good with that.  It’s summer, and therefore perhaps a little easier to be odd, but many of these students have been proving for sometime now, in an all-season sort of way, that odd is where it’s at.  Thanks for the potent reminder backed by Tozer’s quote.     

    • dougfields

      Thanks for reading and your input!

  • Mrs. O

    1 oddball to another…beyond encouraging to hear the words. Pressure to conform and/or move on only increasing with time… Decades of being different allow me to be more effective, especially with that all difficult Jr. High (they are sooooo trying to find themselves, and the ultimate fear of being an outsider can invade every thought…)

    • dougfields

      that’s good! I’m glad you’re different!

  • Moriah Conquering Wind

    All the perks of considering yourself “odd” without any of the pain or hassle associated with having others consider you that. Wow. Is there no field you opportunistic jerks won’t pillage and plunder to shill for your vile and tyrannical imaginary pal?