Leading volunteers… the art of keeping them!


My dentist has a plaque on his wall that reads, “You don’t have to floss all your teeth, just the ones you want to keep!” I hate flossing… but, I get the point.

There’s a similar principle in leading volunteers, “You don’t have to encourage/affirm all your volunteers, just the ones you want to keep!”

Most leaders understand how vital the principle of affirmation is when leading volunteers. Good leaders already know this!

Volunteers are not serving for the money (duh, that’s why they’re called “volunteers”)… they have their own reasons for why they volunteer their time (I believe the two biggest reasons is because they either feel called, or someone asked them–but that’s for another post at another time), they have their own inner-motivation that connects to their “why”… but, a good leader can add to a volunteer’s longevity by delivering some timely encouragement.

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Beyond your own delivery of encouragement, I would encourage you to use (what I’ve termed) “outside” encouragement. This is specific encouragement that comes from outside of you–as the primary leader. You facilitate it, others deploy it.

Think about it, if I encourage you weekly… chances are you’ll be thankful (“Wow, Doug sure is nice to me! Always encouraging.). But, after several months of this encouragement, it can begin to lose some of it’s power. But, what if I ask a parent to encourage you? Now, there’s a new voice, different words, unique tone, and a different motive. That new “outside” encouragement can become very meaningful.

My wife is a volunteer leader of small group of (junior) girls. She was given the attached note. Simple. Thoughtful. And, definitely powerful. Some of the other girls gave her Starbucks cards for Christmas, small gifts, etc… but, it was the note that was the most meaningful. She feels valued by the youth pastor, but this note because valuable. Facilitating this type of leadership is not only easy, it’s powerful!

As a leader, you hold the power to keep your volunteers affirmed. In addition to your encouragement (I’m assuming you do that already), you can direct “outside” encouragement by asking students, parents… even your senior pastor to write an occasional note of appreciation. The power of well placed words can go a long way.


Question: What other simple, practical ways do you use to encourage your volunteers? Share them here.



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  • http://joshrobinson.cc/ Josh Robinson

    Great reminder. It is easy for me to overlook encouraging my leaders creatively at times. I am learning more and more that volunteers need ongoing encouragement and a reminder that what they are doing matters.

    • dougfields

      They sure do Josh… I think about it like this, “Those who aren’t being encouraged will gravitate to other areas where there ‘appears’ to be encouragement.” Some people will leave your youth ministry just because it appears that people in another ministry are more appreciated.

      • http://joshrobinson.cc/ Josh Robinson

        ouch! the truth hurts. I need to do a better job of encouraging leaders on an ongoing basis

        • http://twitter.com/LifeBornofFire Rachel Taylor

          I’m a fairly new youth worker and I do exactly the same thing! I forget that because I’m actually younger than all my volunteers that I can impact them. (Well, I hope!)

  • Jon Tattz

    I needed to hear this today Doug. I love the team of volunteers I am privileged to lead. They are like family to me, but family sometimes get taken for granted! I find the little things have the most impact, like a strategic text after a volunteer has stepped up and done something really good, like a talk or led a tricky subject. An while ago my mentor told me to also have a bunch of cards in your drawer and to randomly send cards expressing encouraging them in their own walk with Jesus. I also want to share my life with these people, and where possible, make sure they are invited to my house for a meal. Basic stuff, but it really makes a difference!

    • dougfields

      Your mentor is giving good advice! Cards make a big difference! In today’s email/text world… snail mail is a nice bonus (especially when it’s personalized). Way to go!

  • http://www.facebook.com/stephencjames Stephen James

    Every year I keep a running list of everyone who has volunteered in our ministry in some capacity. Near the end of the year we have our spring formal, which we also use as an avenue to show appreciation to our volunteers. Approaching the spring formal I bust out the list, and have students sign up to thank a volunteer the night of the event. Usually a student will pick an adult that really impacted their life that year. Throughout the night, I’ll ask the different pairs of student/volunteers to come stand in front of everyone. I’ll thank the volunteer, then the student will too. Usually the students’ thanks are so heartfelt and sincere that it leaves several in the room misty eyed. It’s one of my favorite events of the year.

    • dougfields

      Very cool. I love that idea! I’m also guessing that they get “smaller” strokes of affirmation throughout the year too.