BETTER TOGETHER: 9 reasons why networks work!

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The more I speak with youth workers the greater the need I see/hear for them to connect with others like themselves. This isn’t a new song that I’ve been singing (here I am saying at the Simply Youth Ministry Conference in 2009), but it is one worth repeating. Youth workers need one another…Networks work!

Here’s my list of 9 reasons I believe youth workers should regularly connect with other youth workers:

1. A network is a place to combine resources

When you’re connected with others you can share resources. Practically, this saves you valuable time and money and makes you a relational steward.

2. A network provides a “culture of safety”

One of the reason I love meeting with other youth workers is because I feel safe. I feel understood. I feel known. This is a result from meeting with those who know what I do and what I’m usually feeling/going thru.

3. A network allows us to learn from others

Every time I gather with youth workers I’m amazed at how much I learn by simply listening to their stories about church, parents, teenagers, volunteers, etc… Other people’s life experiences are a classroom for those willing to learn.

4. A network can be an ideas’ factory

I love hearing what other youth workers are doing. When we share ideas, it’s so much easier to “steal” with permission. My favorite network gatherings were when we would show up every month and share copies of all we had done during the month.

5. A network provides free counseling & consulting

This one is HUGE! So many of the questions that I receive to answer on our SYM podcast could be better answered if they were asked within the community of other youth workers. Veteran youth workers are really sharp people and can aid with personal and strategic questions.

6. A network expresses the diversity within the body of Christ

One of the many elements that I enjoy about meeting with other youth workers is the theological melting pot that shows up. If you choose to meet with people in your own denomination, great! But if not, you gather with people who are theologically diverse and have much to offer (diverse, but unified on the essentials that are important to you).

7. A network allows you to be community-oriented

I love it when networks pull off events for either the local community or the faith community. It’s so great to see youth groups doing things they probably couldn’t do on their own but can pull-off because of the connections within their network.

8. A network models non-competitive church relationships

Teenagers need to see that youth groups are willing to work together to do things they can’t do on their own. The youth group down the street isn’t the enemy—the Enemy is the enemy—we need to model that reality

9. A network provides genuine fun and friendships

Networks that meet consistently and for long periods of time become the foundation for great long-term relationships. I’ve experienced this personally and I’ve seen a depth of friendships forming across the country from those who said “yes” to a network gathering.

Bottom line: as youth workers we are “better together”! If you’re not currently connected with a group of youth workers, PLEASE click here and begin searching for one near you.

Chime in! Two ways I’d love to hear from you: (1) What’s the reason that I’m missing? Let’s get to #10. (2) Are you part of a strong network? Let me know about it.
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  • http://jamesmawatson.blogspot.com James Watson

    I’m networked with about 10 other churches in the Livermore, CA area. Long before I got here, they came into being to address the rising teenage suicides in the area. They created a non-profit organization called United4Life and started doing seminars in the 2 local high schools on the issue of suicide prevention. The former youth pastor at my church was the co-founder and I got to step into the money spot! Twice a year we are invited into the public high school classrooms (during the day!) and we teach all the freshman about how to spot the signs of depression and suicide in their friends and get them help. Because we do them this service, we are granted access to the campuses for lunch and Christian clubs throughout the school year.

    As part of this organization,us youth pastors get together every Thursday morning to support, encourage and pray for one another: Baptist, non-denom, charismatic, even catholic. We also do various events together throughout the year, including a city wide “See You at the Pole” rally in the middle of downtown the night before SYATP. These other youth pastors are some of my closest friends who I call on for advice or simply to vent. I’ve never been a part of anything like this, but it’s awesome and I can’t remember what it was like doing ministry without a network.

    • doug

      James: I love this sentence: “These other youth pastors are some of my closest friends who I call on for advice or simply to vent.” GREAT!

  • http://www.scottctinman.com Scott Tinman

    Couldn’t agree more Doug…early in my ministry I got connected to a network of youth workers and this has been a lifeline in ministry. Our network is called The NET (Networking Evangelism Training)…one of the benefits that we have experienced lately is to be able to focus on the Training aspect and started a Learning Community that meets once a month for the day. We talk about youth ministry and look at different ways that we can sharpen one another.

  • http://marcyag.com Jeremiah Poulsen

    I’m part of a network that has provided all nine of these benefits and more. The Syracuse NY area is full of youth ministers who, sharing and encouraging, work together monthly. Across denominational lines they connect and cooperate to further the gospel message. I am currently getting involved in a network in the Utica, Rome area with similar goals in mind.
    So many moments of despair and/or confusion have been weathered bc of the men and women Christy has designed for us to connect with.

    Thanks for this post! So many stories I could tell about the benefits of being together.

    Jeremiah

    • http://marcyag.com Jeremiah Poulsen

      Ha, Christy should be CHRIST lol, THANK YOU SWYPE!

      • doug

        I was so very impressed with the Syracuse network when I was up there earlier this year…it’s definitely a solid group of people who are committed to one another.

  • http://www.theaddyouthpastor.com Andy Lawrenson

    I’m part of a network and we meet once a month over lunch. So lunch with friends is fantastic first of all. Someone usually does a little encouraging devotion talk. We share what’s going on in our church, share ideas. In the summer we join forces for a week and do a local mission event and mix our students up and divide them up into teams and they go to different local mission projects each day and serve together then we all get together for a recreation event in the afternoons.

    • doug

      GREAT! That’s exactly what I was looking for…thanks. Follow up question, are you a formal network with NNYM or is this organized on your own?

      • http://www.theaddyouthpastor.com Andy Lawrenson

        Our network is organize on it’s own. I arrived here about ten years ago and there was only one other full time youth pastor in the area. We started getting together for lunch once a month. As other churches added staff/volunteer youth pastors we began to invite others. Not all churches are involved either because of schedules, choice, or don’t know we exist. I would like to see every church in our community have someone represented. Right now there are about ten to fifteen of us getting together.

        The best part is we know our doctrinal differences so when we do unite to do something together we stick to the foundation, Jesus Christ.

        I’ll have to check out the NNYM.

      • http://www.theaddyouthpastor.com Andy Lawrenson

        Just went to the NNYM site and registered our network. Great stuff on the site. I love the youth leader’s U. Plan on using that stuff in equipping our volunteers.

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