5 Steps toward the death of “to-do” lists (part 1)

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Ministry never stops! There always seems like there’s more to do…more people, more projects, and more tasks. Add all of those elements into a busy week that has regular meeting and program times, and you’ve got for a very full schedule that’s difficult to manage. How do you manage everything? Most of my ministry friends attempt to tackle their work week by relying on the traditional to-do list system.

While creating and maintaining a “to-do” list is better than forgetting all that needs to be done, I’m not a big fan of working from these lists. While a list can be helpful, here are 3 reasons I don’t find them real beneficial:

• Every task on the list feels like it gets equal weighting,
• I usually attempt the easier tasks first (and not the most important ones),
• Since the list continues to grow, by the end of the week, it feels like I didn’t accomplish much.

For about 20 years now I’ve taken five strategic steps to help me become more time effective and productive. Here they are:

1. I determine my roles
2. I list my weekly goals under my roles
3. I project a time for each goal
4. I block out my meetings and/or programs
5. I assign a time slot for each of my goals

Over the next few days I’ll go into more detail about each one.

I determine my roles
This was a very beneficial step when I first started working like this. I took some time to really think about what I do and came up with five different roles. Once I identified these five roles, they rarely ever changed. These are the ones that seemed to make the most sense in my job at the church.

Pastor—Teacher—Leader—Administrator—Developer

Pastor: Even though my title was youth pastor (then, youth & family pastor, then youth & family & teaching pastor) I identified this role as time during the week when I would spend my time with teenagers, parents, make hospital visits, etc….

Teacher: This was the time I would spend in preparation for my teaching opportunities throughout the week. I would usually teach one or two times a week and needed to block out time to study, think, illustrate, and construct messages.

Leader: This included relational time with leader types—teenagers, volunteers, and staff. It also included time for strategic planning and steps to move the ministry forward.

Administrator: This was my least favorite role but one that could dominate all my time if I allowed it to. This included email correspondence, budget, details, follow-up, meeting program essentials, working thru “piles” of stuff that accumulate and need to be dealt with, delegated and discarded.

Developer: This was my most favorite role! It was also the role where I would usually steal time from if I just had too many things to do from the other four roles. I love to create, write, and make things. Simply Youth Ministry grew out of this role (all my books, devotionals, curriculum, etc… came from my developer role).

These were just my work roles. In addition to my work roles, I obviously had personal roles too (Christ-follower, husband, dad, friend, self).

I’ll continue tomorrow. In the meantime, what are the roles you see yourself “playing” within your ministry?

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  • http://joshpezold.com Josh Pezold

    Great post doug. In my ministry i see myself playing the “mentor role” a lot. Mentoring my student leaders through the Student Leader Internship but also mentoring a few others in a more at-risk youth mentorship. Both roles are very different and have their unique challenges and goals. Love the advice! Anyway you organize these different roles in a “today list” kind of format?

  • http://joshpezold.com Josh Pezold

    I meant to say “todo list” kind of format. Need a delete button!

  • http://jerrythinks.wordpress.com Jerry Varner

    Hey Doug,
    Great post and one that is near and dear to my heart. I totally agree about your assessment of typical
    “to-do” lists. Even right now, I have a couple things I’m looking at on my list like my kids look at the broccoli on their plate. Even still, I think there are those moments when we’ve got to “hold our nose and swallow” in terms of our non-sweet-spot tasks. For me, that’s definitely financials/budget stuff. I like to refer to my “to-do” list as a “tah-dah” list and hit it with gusto and excitement. I love the idea of defining your roles and focusing in on that for concentrated blocks of time. (Spent some “Developer” time at Chickfila this morning!) Great stuff as always, Doug. Thanks for helping youth leaders work smarter!

  • http://gracebc.org Bobby Thompson

    I am in a bit of a transitional time in my ministry. I have always been a “do-er” when it comes to student ministry. Create, Develop, Refine, and Implement have all been a huge part of my role. Our ministry is now at a point, numbers wise, where one person or 2-3 staff members led by one person, cannot effectively reach the amount of students we are having. Im struggling in prioritizing these roles you have listed. I somewhat feel like taking the leader role (developing others into strong leaders) has to become my first priority. But should that come before being a Pastor? Or I am I just being Mr. Spiritual???????

  • Chris Ametrano

    This helps out a lot!

  • http://www.brendonfoulke.com Brendon Foulke

    Hey Doug,

    It is crazy how i am trying to figure how to get my to-do list down right now and I just happen to see your post. Here is my only question: if you have just listed 8 roles in your every day life, how on earth did you manage the time for each? How did you determine which got more and which got less?
    Because if we are honest, we get boggled down with certain roles and we let go of other ones. So how do you play the juggle game with your roles?

    Brendon

  • http://sthils.com Kirk

    Hi Doug,

    Long time reader, first time commenter.

    I rely on lists in my role. That’s “lists” plural. I try and break things down into different areas (much like your different roles) to help me prioritise (Australian spelling). Categories include small things like calls, conversations, emails, website and big ones like teaching.

    But here are the two key lists:
    Projects – these are the things you look at once you’ve knocked off the actions on all the other points. You look at your projects (e.g. develop a ministry to parents) and then add actions into your other lists (e.g. call Janelle and ask her if she can lead the parents team, write a job purpose statement for the parents team).

    Waiting For – Left a message for someone? Don’t let the “Call Doug” thing sit in your to-do list nagging you, switch it over to your “waiting for” list and call it “Doug replying to my phone message.” Ah, that feels better, now just check the “waiting for” list once a week and you’ll be much more relaxed.

    PS. My system only works on computer spreadsheets. I use google docs cos I can access it from anywhere with an internet connection. I also share the google doc with my assistant and interns so that I can see what they’re up to and give them jobs or tasks to do. I’ve shared a demo of it (with details mostly removed) find it here: https://spreadsheets.google.com/ccc?key=0AiUbdyLESSUjdGpqTUp0ZlZramhTeW5QdC1nUXRTaXc&hl=en

    It takes a bit of work to setup but it’s changed my life.

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